bosatlbwi
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Looking at the post, I should clarify. It's way harsher than it needed to be. Every time I see another guy in a situation like this it reminds me of how it felt being in that place. I'm probably projecting my problems on you, which isn't cool.
When I made a comment similar to yours, I was in a pretty awful place. I had very little confidence in myself and couldn't see why someone would possibly be interested in me. I missed so many opportunities, and spent so much time kicking ****** because I wouldn't change the behaviour. I got advice similar to the above and it was a step in the right direction. I made a lot of mistakes while figuring things out, and I'm still making mistakes, but I wouldn't wish the feeling of being undesirable on anybody, and it looks like you're in the same hole. The only way to get out of it is to actually try.
my thanks should have been adorned with a (0) because it was totally serious. the above pretty much describes me right now. i appreciate it.