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Option 1. Not sure what you mean about colors matching. Proper black tie matches anything.Alright, I'm trying to nail down attire for my wedding and running into mostly the same problems as the last two pages in the thread, with a little variation. I'd love some advice if you all could give it, any and all thoughts are welcome. Here are the deets, let me know if I left anything out:
Wedding ceremony is at 5PM in early april, followed by cocktail hour, dinner, and dancing. Venue is a hotel ballroom with floor-to-ceiling windows on one side and distinctive blue and grey carpeting. Accordingly we are going with an art deco ish vibe, focusing on blue grey and white in general, trying to mix in some gold and spring green.
General attire is cocktail. I am going to wear a tux. I have 6 groomsmen, probably half of whom own a suit and none of whom own a tux. They will all be traveling for the wedding so I am trying to be price conscious.
Here are the options I am considering for myself, probably MTO through Kent Wang. I am not tied to the "rules" so much as what I think will look good while still being "classy" (I know I know following the "rules" is "classy"). I think the groomsmen attire will fall pretty clearly out of that:
In case you can't tell, I am bad at decisions. I am happy I liked the black classic tux because it is easy to get and a good default. I am guessing I am going to get a lot of people telling me to stop being a 🤡 and take option 1, and I embrace that feedback and value it. I'm getting married on April fool's day, I know who I am, and as such my current preference is for options 4 and 5 if I can get suitable fabric.
- Classic black tux, groomsmen wear black tuxes.
- Love the classiness and classiness, but color doesn't match other colors that well and isn't the best color for me (although I was surprised how much I liked the look of a pretty traditional Zegna tux I tried on).
- Black tux with black velvet jacket, groomsmen wear black tuxes.
- Velvet is a little more fun/matches better and deeper colors/textures look better on me. Haven't been able to try one on yet. Only downside is missing that straight classiness you give up for the velvet flash.
- Midnight blue tux with ___ lapel/trim, groomsmen wear black tuxes.
- Having a bit of a hard time knowing how dark midnight is - most pictures I've found online of this seem pretty aggressively blue.
- I do like the idea of a compromise of blue in daylight and black-looking at night, probably matches wedding aesthetic better.
- Still pretty classy/formal.
- Other main downside is that in general I do not love black trim on blue tuxes, and I am not sure what my options for lapel will be otherwise.
- Navy blue tux with midnight trim, groomsmen wear black tuxes, or navy suits.
- This is kind of where I started. It's very much non traditional which worries me, but I think will match the aesthetic well and look good, and the navy and midnight suits me.
- Only really came off this option once I saw how good black tuxes look.
- Inspiration in green here: https://tomandlorenzo.com/2017/06/2017-cfda-fashion-awards-matt-bomer-in-todd-snyder/
- Midnight blue velvet tux, groomsmen wear something tbd, will probably leave it up to them for this one.
- Maximum fun, probably most worried about it being too blue and what trousers to wear with it. In my mind trousers should be midnight wool, not black, but I'm guessing in your minds I just shouldn't do this.
Thanks for bearing with me, and happy early new years to all!