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What Are You Saying Today? (AKA The Random Thoughts/Blogging Thread)

milosz

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I was ********** until 7am. I'm supposed to be up for work at 7:15. I can't call in sick.

****.
 

SField

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Originally Posted by kwilkinson
When I was seventeen, my sister tried to borrow my Def Leppard album. I said "No way."

So then you paid her back by busting a nut in her ear?
 

Brian SD

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Two nights ago I went out to a new club and it was ******* ridiculous. I came out feeling depressed because of how many gorgeous plastic women there were, yet I lack the fortitude and the confidence to even attempt to talk to them. I shouldn't be so fuckin afraid, should I?

I feel like the minute I approach them I'm just going to be rejected and shamed and then I'll feel like **** and be even more averse to approaching a good looking girl in the future.
 

SoCal2NYC

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Originally Posted by Brian SD
Two nights ago I went out to a new club and it was ******* ridiculous. I came out feeling depressed because of how many gorgeous plastic women there were, yet I lack the fortitude and the confidence to even attempt to talk to them. I shouldn't be so fuckin afraid, should I?

I feel like the minute I approach them I'm just going to be rejected and shamed and then I'll feel like **** and be even more averse to approaching a good looking girl in the future.


I'm the same. I never, ever approach anyone out at a bar.
 

Dion

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Originally Posted by Brian SD
Two nights ago I went out to a new club and it was ******* ridiculous. I came out feeling depressed because of how many gorgeous plastic women there were, yet I lack the fortitude and the confidence to even attempt to talk to them. I shouldn't be so fuckin afraid, should I?

I feel like the minute I approach them I'm just going to be rejected and shamed and then I'll feel like **** and be even more averse to approaching a good looking girl in the future.


Dude you have nothing to worry about, just go for it. If you get turned down, no big deal. Plenty of guys gets rejected. Just go have another drink and then go for someone else
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reason_being

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Originally Posted by Dion
Dude you have nothing to worry about, just go for it. If you get turned down, no big deal. Plenty of guys gets rejected. Just go have another drink and then go for someone else
teacha.gif


Yup, it happens.
 

SoCal2NYC

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Originally Posted by milosz
I was ********** until 7am. I'm supposed to be up for work at 7:15. I can't call in sick.

****.


I was doing it so hard today it like winded me!
 

Brian SD

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Originally Posted by Dion
Dude you have nothing to worry about, just go for it. If you get turned down, no big deal. Plenty of guys gets rejected. Just go have another drink and then go for someone else
teacha.gif


True, true. There's some deep-rooted lack of confidence I can never seem to work out. I'm sure it's compounded by the fact that it will be particularly embarrassing if I go try to strike up a conversation and she doesn't speak enough English to understand me.

Thanks for the encouragement, anyway. This weekend I'm going to try to break through that barrier somewhere, if not in a bar.
 

VKK3450

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Nutella

Damn

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