GloStiX
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I think this is (at a lesser extent) similar to what women must experience when it comes to their body image in relation to hyperreal images in mass media. Try explaining to a teenage girl with anorexia that she is too skinny. Most guys have completely unrealistic expectations when it comes to fit. It's not magic; it's clothing. Some men have genuine mental issues when it comes to this, and all I can do is try to convince them that what they see in the mirror and what other people see is not the same thing.
I have thought about this a lot as well. I know that to some extent it is indeed media-based body image conditioning, i.e. after seeing the below picture, you would find your typical Brooks Brothers fit WAAAY too loose. Funny that you call it a mental issue, I brought a friend of mine to a suit fitting with me in New York before, and he jokingly said "this is like your Munchhausen's (a mental disorder)", in reference to how meticulously tight I preferred the fit, but I know I'm not the only one, because even the tailor told me they have often seen guys with that fit.
What then do you think "other people" think when they see a guy in a skinny suit?