DoubleDouble
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Sorry if I was unclear, I wholly agree with you on this.it's not even incongruent with body positivity. […] Ultimately it's just recognising that there is more than one way to look good.
I think I'm mostly reacting to BlakeRVA's comment, because I feel like "wear what you like", "it's all psychological", "fashion is subjective", "if you don't feel confident in it you won't look good" are all "positive" and partially true arguments that sound good, but are often used to shut down any constructive discourse on body shape.
I do understand it comes from a good place. But not everyone will look their best in a raglan sleeve or oversized clothing and it's okay.