never imagined I would do this but....girl advice needed

[M1TSGUR1]

So here's the story:

I've known this girl for about 5 1/2 years now. We met in high school and ended up going to the same college. When I first met her I was feeling her and sensed some reciprocation on her part. Long story short, I ended up dating one of her good friends for close to 5 years on and off while she ended up getting together with my step-brother (he kinda did her dirty but w/e). We always purposely had the same classes in college and hung out alot but I always kept the relationship light and never too buddy buddy, never let her really get inside my head. Now we're both single, recently graduated, and working in similar fields. Lately, we've been hanging out together solo after work or otherwise - stuff like dinner, movies, and getting drinks together, basically things any couple would do. Although I consider her one of my best friends and vice versa I'm only starting to really get to know her better now that we've had the chance to spend alone time and I'm starting to really feel this girl again. If it wasn't for all the history (me dating her friend, her dating my step-brother) it would of been a no-brainer but I don't want to take the risk of bringing it up if it's just gonna mess up our relationship. I definately sense sexual tension but she's the type of chick that'll be logical just to be politically correct so to speak. So, what should I do, besides whipping it out?

 

[NorCal]

Dude... she had your step brothers cock in her mouth. Kissing her is like blowing your brother. Your ******* brother. So nope, that ship has sailed. Enjoy your friendship (really, enjoy it. Unlike most people on here I'm a firm believer in having legit female friends).

 

[zalb916]

All of these scenarios have two options. You either get her drunk and try to **** her or just tell her the truth. Either way, you'll know the answer.

 

[imageWIS]

Originally Posted by zbromer

All of these scenarios have two options. You either get her drunk and try to **** her or just tell her the truth. Either way, you'll know the answer.

Agreed. If you keep it in and don't tell her you will go crazy.

 

[r...]

Never imagined ******, you couldnt wait to need lady advice from strangers on an obvious issue... reveling in your non-issue just the way you did imagine it.

Aaaaanyway, no. Im not even sure what your question is but if Norcal has to relate it to how kissing women should only be like sucking the cocks of people not related to you by marriage. Then the answer is no.

 

[montecristo#4]

Originally Posted by NorCal

Dude... she had your step brothers cock in her mouth. Kissing her is like blowing your brother. Your ******* brother. So nope, that ship has sailed. Enjoy your friendship (really, enjoy it. Unlike most people on here I'm a firm believer in having legit female friends).

+1, don't kiss her, but definitely bang her.

 

[unjung]

Err... so everyone here only gets with virgins?

 

[sho'nuff]

just whip it out

 

[milosz]

Bringing it up will not **** up your friendship.
Having meaningless, drunk sex will also not **** up your friendship.

The idea that telling someone "hey, I think you're awesome and would like to try *******/dating" irrevocably changes the dynamic is some romantic comedy bullshit. You're not asking her to marry you or anything insane.

And if you just hook up and it seems awkward, you've gotten the sexual tension out of the way and you can remain friends without the what-if hanging over your head.

 

[bigboy]

Originally Posted by M1TSGUR1

I definately sense sexual tension but she's the type of chick that'll be logical just to be politically correct so to speak. So, what should I do, besides whipping it out?

WRONG. The female engine runs off of emotions, it doesn't take logic.

Originally Posted by NorCal

Dude... she had your step brothers cock in her mouth. Kissing her is like blowing your brother. Your ******* brother. So nope, that ship has sailed. Enjoy your friendship (really, enjoy it. Unlike most people on here I'm a firm believer in having legit female friends).

That's why I only give a gentle kiss to my mother on the forehead. I don't care for what my father's penis tastes like.

 

[HRoi]

great thread. and i don't know what's more disturbing...the thought of kissing one's mother on the lips, or the reason for not doing so being to avoid imagining what one's father's penis tastes like

 

[JoeWoah]

Originally Posted by NorCal

Dude... she had your step brothers cock in her mouth. Kissing her is like blowing your brother. Your ******* brother. So nope, that ship has sailed. Enjoy your friendship (really, enjoy it. Unlike most people on here I'm a firm believer in having legit female friends).

He wants to be Eskimo Brothers too!

http://www.urbandictionary.com/defin...skimo+brothers

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"When two guys have had sex with the same girl, they're Eskimo Brothers. You have to know what your eskimo family tree is. It's how you get things done."

 

[GQgeek]

Originally Posted by HRoi

great thread. and i don't know what's more disturbing...the thought of kissing one's mother on the lips, or the reason for not doing so being to avoid imagining what one's father's penis tastes like

Are there people that do this?

 

[Mildly Consumptive]

Originally Posted by M1TSGUR1

So here's the story:

So, what should I do?



Get some liquor into her! Seriously, this works.

 

[CDFS]

Originally Posted by NorCal

Dude... she had your step brothers cock in her mouth. Kissing her is like blowing your brother. Your ******* brother. So nope, that ship has sailed. Enjoy your friendship (really, enjoy it. Unlike most people on here I'm a firm believer in having legit female friends).
Wouldn't kissing any other girls mean blowing a gazillion other cocks...?