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Cheers gents, your feedback and advice is good to hear. I know what I have to do, I just need to man up and do it. I am not the youngest guy (34) and don't live somewhere with a plethora of the kind of eligible women I will be looking for so I definitely have that missed the boat/last chance feeling that really feels ****** on top of everything else....
Serious question: If you're sober enough to send out a text, and then walk over to the bar, is it really drunk texting? I have never once sent out a drunk text because if I am drunk, I can barely sit up/stand up let alone whip out my phone and text out a semi-coherent sentence. I think whenever someone says they're sending out a drunk text or whatever is aware of exactly what they are doing and just using the whole drunk thing as an excuse when **** inevitably goes bad.
I hadn't talked to my ex for 2 months, then I get "I'm thinking about you text" out of the blue from her while she is in Vegas. I foolishly text back a couple days later and ask how her trip was and she tells me she thought about me the whole time and it was weird to be there without me. She further tells me that she thinks of me everyday which makes me hopeful so I proceed initiate contact via text until she tells me she had a "weak moment" and no interest in getting back together. 2 months of healing down the drain and now I feel like I am back to square one. I should have known better, wtf...
The worst part of me always thinks that this girl probably needs someone to babysit while she goes do her thing. The other part of me believes she still wants to maintain our friendship or w/e.
She does, but in a completely selfish way. I've been on the receiving, and i'm ashamed to say giving end of these types of things.
She misses you but not enough to actually want to get back together or really have anything to do with you, she just wants to satisfy her insecurities/ego/need to be wanted.
I know it sounds cynical, and she certainly isn't thinking like that, but it's the truth.
Still sucks, because she's absolutely worth building a friendship with.
Yo man, let me know how it turns out b/c I am in the exact same situation. After weeks (month?) of ignoring ex after she said she needed a break
Friendship with an ex can work when both parties have decided to let it go...
Do you think this way when you meet a cool guy who's tastes are similar to yours?
"Man, we should really develop our friendship! I know, maybe i'll get him tickets to the game on the weekend!"
Let it go man. When you bump into each other in a few years you'll be friends. Otherwise oh well, you shouldnt have to work on friendships anyway.