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I'm messing with you. Underwear is actually my favorite song on that album.
IMHO, you shouldn't have to have any sort of discussion with a woman you are dating about what you can and cannot afford to do. That's just emasculating. If she's planning all these fancy dates and is clueless about your means given that you are a student, no conversation about what you can afford is going to have great results. Try gracefully skipping out on some of these fancier affairs (encouraging her to attend without you), and then YOU take the reigns on date planning going forward. If she doesn't figure out what's going on after that pattern of events then she's not ever going to get it, whether you tell her explicitly or not. So you will need to date some poorer women for the time being and do what virtually every other doctor/lawyer/banker in the history of the world has done: trade up when you banks the kwan.
Are you ******* kidding me? Emasculating? Trade up? You are seriously gross.
IMHO, you shouldn't have to have any sort of discussion with a woman you are dating about what you can and cannot afford to do. That's just emasculating. If she's planning all these fancy dates and is clueless about your means given that you are a student, no conversation about what you can afford is going to have great results. Try gracefully skipping out on some of these fancier affairs (encouraging her to attend without you), and then YOU take the reigns on date planning going forward. If she doesn't figure out what's going on after that pattern of events then she's not ever going to get it, whether you tell her explicitly or not. So you will need to date some poorer women for the time being and do what virtually every other doctor/lawyer/banker in the history of the world has done: trade up when you banks the kwan.
Are you ******* kidding me? Emasculating? Trade up? You are seriously gross.
Are you ******* kidding me? Emasculating? Trade up? You are seriously gross.
One other thought: If you find that not being rich is emasculating, you really don't have a very strong sense of self-worth.
There is so much wrong with that post that I don't know where to start. I'll just posit that even if you are quite rich, there are still things you feel that you cannot afford, so you are always in the position of having to decide whether to exist in a relationship in which you value open communication, or one in which you believe that alpha-ness is shrinking away from being able to take a realistic appraisal of a situation and sharing it with your partner. Alpha as ****, I guess.
There is so much wrong with that post that I don't know where to start. I'll just posit that even if you are quite rich, there are still things you feel that you cannot afford, so you are always in the position of having to decide whether to exist in a relationship in which you value open communication, or one in which you believe that alpha-ness is shrinking away from being able to take a realistic appraisal of a situation and sharing it with your partner. Alpha as ****, I guess.