Presto, the purpose of my post was more along the lines of...
It might not seem to mean a lot to you now but maybe it should. Sitting in the cancer ward talking to a guy who is going to lose an 8 year old daughter will put things in a different perspective. The same way it would for that guy to go to Ethiopia or some other place and watch a father helplessly watch his child starve to death...knowing that there is nothing he can do.
Something I've learned in life is that the things that really devastate you are the things you don't even worry about...the things that come out of nowhere and blindside you (like cancer). To me, there is nothing harder to deal with than the suffering of a loved one and being helpless to do anything about it. In comparison, the death of a loved one is much easier to cope with. The reality is that both are part of life for most people. And the reality is that the sooner one accepts this the sooner they will see how wonderful life can be and move on.
Life is not fair and terrible things happen to the best of people. That is life. It is not the things that happen but how you react to them that will make you happy or unhappy. It is YOUR choice. Ruining a shirt is a big deal to you right now because you are letting it be a big deal. There are many ways to cope but taking solace in the fact that there are others that have it worse off than me provides perspective for me. You have to ask yourself, "can I recover from this?" and not waste time moving on, if you can.
...and know that there are others that have it worse off than you.
It might not seem to mean a lot to you now but maybe it should. Sitting in the cancer ward talking to a guy who is going to lose an 8 year old daughter will put things in a different perspective. The same way it would for that guy to go to Ethiopia or some other place and watch a father helplessly watch his child starve to death...knowing that there is nothing he can do.
Something I've learned in life is that the things that really devastate you are the things you don't even worry about...the things that come out of nowhere and blindside you (like cancer). To me, there is nothing harder to deal with than the suffering of a loved one and being helpless to do anything about it. In comparison, the death of a loved one is much easier to cope with. The reality is that both are part of life for most people. And the reality is that the sooner one accepts this the sooner they will see how wonderful life can be and move on.
Life is not fair and terrible things happen to the best of people. That is life. It is not the things that happen but how you react to them that will make you happy or unhappy. It is YOUR choice. Ruining a shirt is a big deal to you right now because you are letting it be a big deal. There are many ways to cope but taking solace in the fact that there are others that have it worse off than me provides perspective for me. You have to ask yourself, "can I recover from this?" and not waste time moving on, if you can.