• Hi, I am the owner and main administrator of Styleforum. If you find the forum useful and fun, please help support it by buying through the posted links on the forum. Our main, very popular sales thread, where the latest and best sales are listed, are posted HERE

    Purchases made through some of our links earns a commission for the forum and allows us to do the work of maintaining and improving it. Finally, thanks for being a part of this community. We realize that there are many choices today on the internet, and we have all of you to thank for making Styleforum the foremost destination for discussions of menswear.
  • This site contains affiliate links for which Styleforum may be compensated.
  • LuxeSwap Auctions will be ending soon!

    LuxeSwap is the original consignor for Styleforum, and has weekly auctions that show the diversity of our community, with hundreds lof starting at $0.99 every week, ending starting at 5:30 Eastern Time. Please take the time to check them out here. You may find something that fits your wardrobe exactly

    Good luck!.

  • STYLE. COMMUNITY. GREAT CLOTHING.

    Bored of counting likes on social networks? At Styleforum, you’ll find rousing discussions that go beyond strings of emojis.

    Click Here to join Styleforum's thousands of style enthusiasts today!

    Styleforum is supported in part by commission earning affiliate links sitewide. Please support us by using them. You may learn more here.

Would you choose your career again

Mr Herbert

Distinguished Member
Joined
Oct 29, 2009
Messages
1,646
Reaction score
10
hypothetically, if you could turn back time, would you choose your career again knowing what you do now about it?

or for those who cant think hypotheically, would you recomend your son enter the same industry (assuming he had a similar temprement to yourself?) or would you steer him away and towards something else?

In adition, anyone from a highly trained career path completely changed tack midlife?
 

TGPlastic

Senior Member
Joined
Feb 24, 2009
Messages
316
Reaction score
0
I'm a lawyer in private practice with a small firm. I litigate criminal, PI, and some family law. 7+ years deep. If I had it to do over again I'd be a cheese maker, a light carpenter, or a resort bartender. Might also consider US Coast Guard or snowboard instructor. Yes, seriously. Note: the days of wanting your kid to grow up to be a doctor a lawyer or an indian chief are over.
 

globetrotter

Stylish Dinosaur
Joined
Sep 28, 2004
Messages
20,341
Reaction score
423
I'd do it again in a heartbeat. not only that, but I'd love to have one of more of my kids do it
 

Sartorial1

Senior Member
Joined
Sep 16, 2010
Messages
298
Reaction score
0
Yep.
5th generation of a family business.
To my good fortune,
each generation has been an only child.
 

v.freeman

Senior Member
Joined
Jan 28, 2010
Messages
185
Reaction score
0
I wouldn't mind working for the Federal Reserve or the US Treasury or some government job. Too bad the pay is complete ****.
 

JayJay

Stylish Dinosaur
Joined
Jun 25, 2007
Messages
24,297
Reaction score
439
Originally Posted by globetrotter
I'd do it again in a heartbeat. not only that, but I'd love to have one of more of my kids do it
Same here. I can't imagine doing anything else.
 

Harold falcon

Stylish Dinosaur
Joined
Dec 6, 2009
Messages
32,028
Reaction score
11,364
I would not choose this career again.
 

HRoi

Stylish Dinosaur
Joined
Dec 28, 2008
Messages
25,370
Reaction score
16,314
no. Appreciation doesn't really offer the long term financial stability that i thought it would
 

tomgirl

Distinguished Member
Joined
Sep 10, 2009
Messages
1,513
Reaction score
16
Originally Posted by TGPlastic
I'm a lawyer in private practice with a small firm. I litigate criminal, PI, and some family law. 7+ years deep. If I had it to do over again I'd be a cheese maker, a light carpenter, or a resort bartender. Might also consider US Coast Guard or snowboard instructor. Yes, seriously. Note: the days of wanting your kid to grow up to be a doctor a lawyer or an indian chief are over.

This seriously made me laugh. I wish my parents could read this.
 

Rambo

Timed Out
Timed Out
Joined
Oct 3, 2007
Messages
24,706
Reaction score
1,347
Originally Posted by TGPlastic
I'm a lawyer in private practice with a small firm. I litigate criminal, PI, and some family law. 7+ years deep. If I had it to do over again I'd be a cheese maker, a light carpenter, or a resort bartender. Might also consider US Coast Guard or snowboard instructor. Yes, seriously. Note: the days of wanting your kid to grow up to be a doctor a lawyer or an indian chief are over.
laugh.gif
 

BP348

Senior Member
Joined
May 16, 2009
Messages
659
Reaction score
0
Yes, but I'd have to really think about the offer I turned down that would have keept me in the same field but down a different track.

If my kids want to do what I do I'd rather they go down that other track.
 

scurvyfreedman

Distinguished Member
Joined
May 5, 2010
Messages
2,827
Reaction score
4,426
I'm a lawyer for a not-for-profit. It took me longer to get where I wanted to get, but now that I'm there I'm very happy. I wouldn't recommend it to anyone who didn't have the same core belief system. The not-for-profit world trades income for a cause and while fighting my way up to the top of the food chain I made significantly less than my friends who graduated law school with me. Now I just make a 25% less than they do, but I have a much better working envirnoment.
 

Featured Sponsor

Do You Have a Signature Fragrance?

  • Yes, I have a signature fragrance I wear every day

  • Yes, I have a signature fragrance but I don't wear it daily

  • No, I have several fragrances and rotate through them

  • I don't wear fragrance


Results are only viewable after voting.

Forum statistics

Threads
508,853
Messages
10,605,445
Members
224,764
Latest member
carolinaflooringspeci
Top