don't mean to derail the thread but unless you've been married for a while and your finances are heavily interwined, why would she care?
Nah it's all good. I mostly said it in jest, but it's because we've been going a little crazy lately. Just bought a new Model S and the quotes for our house remodel are rolling in (new kitchen, floors throughout the whole house, new electrical, new sheetrock... The whole deal). She cares but also not really. And also, she can't say **** because I just bought her a Peloton ??.