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Yeah, I think this is a nice summary. I think I like the idea of a ring because my father had a law school and not an undergrad ring. Perhaps it was simply because he did not have the money to buy an undergrad ring at the time, although I know he identifies with his law school far, far more than his undergrad school. He stopped wearing the ring when he got married and got a wedding ring, but it lay on his desk at home. I would always stare at it when I was a child, vaguely knowing what it was, but I thought that I wanted one of those too. I think this is why I would want to get a traditional antique finish ring with the stone and detailing, should I get a ring.
My father also insisted on getting me an undergrad ring even though I thought it was too much of an expense. I never wore any kind of jewelry, but because of my father's sentiment about the ring that far exceeded mine at the time, I ended up wearing it regularly, even when I'm out in just a t-shirt and shorts.
I'm not trying to justify anything, but just felt like sharing that with you.
I'm intrigued by the comments on different cultural norms.
For what it is worth, I would not think someone who put an LLM year school class ring on his desk to look at once in a while to remind himself of a pleasant experience was necessarily an obtuse clod. I would need more information.