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Good news is that four in hand is the simplest knot to tie and you’ve got the elements. Personally I find it helpful to look at the details of the shirt collar (point length and tie space) and lapel width when determining which knot to use and try to find something that balances - Essentially I don’t want any of the 3 to overpower the other. I personally don’t like to think about this much so I found a collar I like and stick with it and don’t have to think I just tie my tie and put on my jacket.Thanks I just learned two more elements to work on. I haven’t tied many knots so ill work on that in the evenings perhaps. It is a point of frustration for me to get the right length for my long torso. I wasn’t aware that oxfords were mostly reserved for suits. For business casual shoes what should I stick to?
As for shoes - I’m not an absolutist on the oxfords with suits only but I think it’s a helpful thing to consider when getting started. Given you are wearing loafers I’ll take that to mean you’re not one of the unfortunates who can’t find loafers that fit. I personally think loafers are the easiest to get a lot of versatility out of. My most worn three pairs are a brown suede tassel loafer, a black calfskin tassel loafer and a dark brown calfskin penny loafer. They work with tailoring all the way down to jeans.
If business casual for you means chinos, button downs and knits or a vest - I think the loafers work but would consider a brown suede chukka boot in the mix. Derbies work for these situations as well but I personally find loafers easier to spread across a wider range of options and maximize usage if you’re trying to avoid the rabbit hole of ending up with too many shoes.