It is/was, I acknowledged and commented on that fact prior... I merely included it in my warning label to add a sentence long exclamation point, to an already lengthy and extensive, detailed list of every reason he should turn and run. Essentially meant to be a Post Script to my body dramatizing my sincerity by letting the core of what was written sink in, then reiterating that horrific ******* bomb as a little P.S in case he forgot admistd the litnay of perhaps equally notable and important other reasons as to why this would be a poor decision.,Just flexin the flair for penmanship that I never in my llife, ever possessed.I took this to be @SpooPoker 's main point by asking the marriage question.