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A question of trust

alladin

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Hi,

I wanted to ask you would trust another fellow member to carry an item for you internationally?

This is based on:

1: another member agreeing to carry the item for you
2: Speaking (via phone or emial) to the member beforehand

I am basing this on the theory of purchasing something on ebay for example - which is based on trust to a large extent.

OR

Is this something you would not consider?
 

lasbar

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Originally Posted by alladin
Hi,

I wanted to ask you would trust another fellow member to carry an item for you internationally?

This is based on:

1: another member agreeing to carry the item for you
2: Speaking (via phone or emial) to the member beforehand

I am basing this on the theory of purchasing something on ebay for example - which is based on trust to a large extent.

OR

Is this something you would not consider?



No...

I will do it for a very few people from SF...

It is too risky...
 

GBR

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Drugs mule - or indeed any other sort of mule?

Have nothing to do with it, if it is legitimate then use a commercial firm, if not ponder jail.
 

JayJay

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I wouldn't consider it at all. No way I'd do this.
 

JamesX

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No way.

If they are willing to go through the trouble to get me to carry it through customs, they can just post it.

I would be willing to pick up a product via proxy at a store though, but even then only for someone I have personally interacted with and not just over the web.
 

dragon8

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Don't do it since alot can go wrong.
 

in stitches

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Originally Posted by voxsartoria
Say no more: yes, I think that you can trust Moo.


- B


*PP


dont foget the courtesy flush!

op, id only do it if i knew the member well and had prior interactions that i could base my trust on
 

dragon8

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Originally Posted by alladin
Hi,

I wanted to ask you would trust another fellow member to carry an item for you internationally?

This is based on:

1: another member agreeing to carry the item for you
2: Speaking (via phone or emial) to the member beforehand

I am basing this on the theory of purchasing something on ebay for example - which is based on trust to a large extent.

OR

Is this something you would not consider?



Are you scared that this person might disappear with your item? How much is the item worth?

Originally Posted by in stitches
dont foget the courtesy flush!

op, id only do it if i knew the member well and had prior interactions that i could base my trust on


I've met a few people on here that I trust. I think one has to go with their instincts.
 

KObalto

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Originally Posted by voxsartoria
Say no more: yes, I think that you can trust Moo. - B *PP
I was pretty sure it was you: Aladdin: "Where is my scrod? You arrived 2 months ago?" "... -B" OP, it would all depend on the SF member and my relationship with him, just like IRL.
 

ter1413

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what's da item?
 

Jangofett

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Originally Posted by alladin
Hi,

I wanted to ask you would trust another fellow member to carry an item for you internationally?

Is this something you would not consider?


Its a matter of trust in all respects.
Whether you trust him or not and vice versa and whether you think the other guy will stiff you or not.

I did it twice.

Once, I collected goods for this merchant because I was at this convention and he was not.
I volunteered for it and he didnt pay me. He agreed because it would cost him a sum to ship it.
He already paid for it and if I stiff him, he would be in trouble but he trusted me.

Of course, carrying it with me can be quite hefty and bulky especially since I was travelling. It could be drugs or some other contraband but it turned out not to be.

He gave me some discount on some goods I bought from him but not much and really not worth my while if this was a commercial transaction. Its more like doing a merchant a favour. I made an overseas phone call to ensure things are alright but I didnt charge him for it.

The other time wasn't so good. It was an event I attended and I bought some goods for this reseller to sell. I wasnt so close to him and it was a commercial transaction. It was not even a proxy buy. I paid for the stuff.

After I bought the stuff, he didnt pay me much more than what I paid for and sold them at a higher markup. Its my fault for not agreeing on terms with him but I didnt make a loss. I should have told him to buzz off and sold the goods myself but at that time, internet was still in its infancy.
 

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